Musings

Usually, I write one essay every few days.  On rare occasions, I'll write two in the same day.  This is one of those days.

Just heard from an owner of a bed and breakfast in Cleveland that I'm thinking of visiting next month.  He's part of the UUreHome Bed and Breakfast Association sponsored by the Unitarian/Universalist Church.  Last year I joined so I'd be able to stay at clean, safe, friendly places when traveling especially as a woman on her own.

Although I haven't yet stayed at any, I'm about to visit Lois in New York who already bought tickets for an off-Broadway show for us and said I could stay with her free of charge (yes, in New York City and a nice section of town, too!) in exchange for staying with me if she ever comes my way.  Of course, I said, sounds perfect. 

We'd been in touch since last Christmas when I suddenly found out that the famed restaurant, "Tavern on the Green" was closing.  I frantically looked up anyone and everyone from the UUre Home Directory, in New York City, with whom I could stay, as I dearly wanted to visit this historic landmark before it closed forever. 

Lois was friendly warm and welcoming to me right from the get-go.  Although I couldn't swing the airfare and other costs involved, at the time, my enthusiasm ignited Lois's interest, and she ended up going there on New Year's Eve (for lunch) the last day it was open for business.

Plus, she took lots of beautiful pictures and sent me a set.  This, from a stranger.  In New York.  From a bed and breakfast directory.  Hillary Clinton said, "It takes a village."  Indeed.
Other philosophers said, "we are all connected."  I'd agree.  Some more than others.  Often with open hearts and minds.  And arms.

Just now I heard from a gentleman in Cleveland with whom I'm trying to connect to make a reservation for mid-May.  He called and left really nice message on my phone.  You'd think he was family.  He said the dates I wanted to come were perfect, and that he and his wife would get everything ready for my stay.  Plus, there was a park nearby with beautiful bicycle trails and they have an extra bike for me, too.  His tone was so welcoming, so friendly, so kind.  He went on to say there were many wonderful sights to see and experience in Cleveland and that I might enjoy staying longer or even moving there!

I listened enraptured.  With his openness---in this day and age--his sincerity, warmth and big-heartedness.  Somewhat amazed, I smiled and felt warm all over.  Just when you think there's no safety nets, no gurantees in life, no friends to go anyplace with. . . out of the blue, something wonderful happens to restore your faith.  Like this phone call from a perfect stranger.  I feel re-energized, hopeful and happy after hearing his message.  Think I'll call back, now, and reserve my room for mid-May.  Should be a wonderful visit and the start of a great new friendship.  I am constantly surprised and in awe of the human spirit and the human heart.